Does Taking It In the Ass Make Me Gay?

I've seen this question posted on various forums and have even been asked it once or twice. The short answer. No. What makes you gay is being attracted to only members of the same sex. Not whether or not you take it up the ass. Actually, there are a lot of gay men who don't have anal sex.

Look, you ass has a metric fuckton of nerve endings that feel good when stimulated the right way. Also, you have a prostate who likes to be messaged. Don't deny your butthole some lovin' because you're scared to be labeled gay. As a matter-of-fact just forget about labels. They tend to pigeonhole you into specific social constructs. If it feels good, do it. Just make sure everyone involved is aware of the risks and has consented.

Happy Buttsecks!

Happy New Year

Bdsm is a lifelong journey. We learn new things. We grow and we change.

This year Ive resolved to learn a couple new skills and improve on some old ones. Here is my list:

- Learn how to do cell popping (micro branding)
- Try figging from the top and bottom sides
- Better my skill with rope
- Buy my own a violet wand
- Be more artistic during with needle play
- Practice more with a single-tail